You know that person that pisses you off?

Relationships are there to make you grow.

... ummmm... even the ones that piss me off, make me feel small or make me sad???

Especially the ones that piss you off, make you feel small, jealous, frustrated. The ones that break your heart and make you sad... are all there for YOU.

Instead of polarizing our circumstances and labelling things as "good" or "bad" we must realize that all of it- yes ALL of it - is there to make us grow into the person we are meant to be. We become happier and more at peace we will be.. no matter who or what crosses your path .

Every single person that crosses your path in life is there to teach you something. Not all people you cross paths with are meant to be in your life forever but for that moment in time, they are your teacher.

What person, circumstance or situation in your life right now is calling you to grow?

Life happens for you.

You are not a victim and please, do not take it personally.

If people are mean to you, don't take it personally. If people are nice to you, don't take it personally. If people laugh or ridicule you... or even don't say anything or give you feedback.. don't take it personally. If people like you or hate you.. either way, don't take it personally. Soften your gaze and be open to seeing from a different perspective.

Whew!!! What a lesson in growth that is. Growing through all of what life gives you and trusting enough in yourself, the universe and in your truth that no matter what others have to say, you still LOVE yourself... and trust.

When life throws you challenges and obstacles (which it ALWAYS does and will- that's life!) begin to look for the opportunity to grow and become a better version of you instead of collapsing into yourself and separating yourself from the world around you.

Maybe your lesson right now is to allow yourself to be freely and fully supported by others.

xo