Creativity is one of the ways that we connect, play and express ourselves as a couple. Our canvases have been our teachers in learning and diving deeper into our individual unique expression, purpose and how we show up for ourselves and each other in this world. After all, we are a reflection of what we create and put out in the world.
Owning our unique styles while remaining open and willing has been fun and challenging at the same time as a couple. Supporting each other and cheering each other on (even when it may challenge the way YOU think it should be or look, or even if you don't understand.. ) is a practice that has help us grow as individuals and as a couple. It requires focusing what is best for the whole rather then being right.
The more YOU love YOU and how you express yourself, the more you will connect with as well as accept others ... and the more you give out love, celebrate others , and sincerely be excited for them and their accomplishments, the more you will receive of the same. We get what we give out... what we put out in the world. If you don't like what you are getting then make the choice to change it.
So, if you are feeling frustrated, annoyed, impatient and stuck, start by giving out more love to the people around you (write a note of appreciation rather then dagger eyes), do things that energize you and bring you joy ( because you are so worthy and you cannot give from an empty cup), be gentle on yourself and have more compassion ( usually when we are tough on others we are being extra tough on ourselves; so pay attention for that) and remind yourself that you are on the same team. Remember, how you do anything is how you do everything- pay attention and let go of being right (this will feel very, very intense, visualize yourself "softening"). Be open and willing to see things differently and see how the things around will change.
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