I've started going into situations with an open mind and an open heart (lol it only took me 37 years ) to see things from a different point of view. Situations that have stressed me out or made me anxious in the past as well as situations where I am around people that are different then me. People that I would judge because of their thoughts, behaviours or way of living.
Instead of separating and creating polarity, feeling annoyed, disgusted or superior, I look for mutual grounds.
Conflict and separation both often stem from polarity. I am learning that conflict can also lead to unity, growth and further connection. It's much easier to stay pissed off, shoot daggers, judge and take things personally.. BUT you also repeat the past and make it a reality again. It takes courage to soften your heart and see things again for the first time.
It takes even more courage to stay factual, see the innocence of everyone involved and grow closer through the tough times ( past or present). Relationships are here to help us grow into the person that we are meant to be.
What relationship or situation in your life do you find most challenging?
How can you change your perspective (it often also involves not taking things personally :) and see things from a different point of view?
It takes sooooo much energy to put out hate and negative energy into the world. You are so worth letting go of anything and everything that is resulting in anything other then love.
Where in your life are you being called to grow into the person you are meant to be through relationships, conflicts or challenges?
You got this! It will be uncomfortable and awkward at first. You will ABSOLUTELY have to quiet that inner mean girl/judge/victim in your head. Stay open and soften. Tell her that you see here but that she is not allowed to drive. Put her in the back seat! Use the energy that you were putting into hate to fuel you into further growth, connection and love.. even if it's for yourself.
xo
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